“I think I’m the happiest I’ve ever been. Part of it is just learning what makes me happier and doing more of it, and learning what makes me unhappier and doing less of it.” – Mark Frauenfelder.
In our gallant efforts to tread as kindly as we can in this often frazzling, bewildering world, it is important to remember to be kind to ourselves and relish in the things which make us happy. The arrival of Spring, coinciding with my birthday, often makes me reflect on how my year is panning out, 3/4 of the way into it. I’m coasting along pretty well – tardy and sporadic blog posting aside, and there’s a couple of grand plans in the pipeline which have been occupying my thoughts. Stay tuned !
In the meantime, here is what is making me content, happy and optimistic right here, right now.
Cooking up a Storm including…..
- Creamy Curried Quinoa (thanks to The Full Helping)
- Spring Roll Bowls with Sweet Garlic Lime Sauce (thanks to Pinch of Yum)
- Sweet Potato Chickpea Buddha Bowl (thanks to Minimalist Baker)
- Flavour Bomb Greens’n’Noodles (thanks to My Green Roots)
- Choc Coffee energy bites (bizarrely thanks to NIB – my health insurer)
I am doing a bit of an on-line Spring spruce up through Vegan Sparkles – specifically The Sparkle Project which is full of incredible healthy, plant based recipes (along with lots of healthy and inspirational “mind stuff” too). If your mind or kitchen creativity needs a bit of a revamp, I’d highly recommend it.
Sourcing some new fab eateries in Sydney
Vegan ramen * at Ippeudo in the surprisingly atmospheric Westfields Sydney CBD.
* Pho and ramen usually have pork in the stock – even when advertised as being vegetarian so to find some 100% vegan options for 2 of my favourite soups was a great find.
Coffee and sourdough to die for as well as a scrumptious all vegetarian / vegan menu at Two Chaps in Marrickville. I usually have a rule about refusing to line up anywhere to eat but the food here is far too good to keep to this rule (and the wait is swift).
I am thrilled to the core about the prospect of having a “pub feed” at Australia’s first vegan pub – The Green Lion in Rozelle, Sydney. Opened on 17th September. Oooh yeah !!
Finding a new Perfume
I have been stuck in a pleasant Issey Miyake ground hog day experience for about the last 15 years – having not being able to find a worthy replacement. As I discussed in my post about perfume, the credentials of Issey Myake in the kindness stakes are a bit wishy washy. The good news is, I have fallen in love with a new scent – and it’s guaranteed cruelty free status – Vanilla Grapefruit by Lavanila. Divine scents are a massive thing for me in the feel good stakes. Which segues me into….
My almost nightly bath ritual is paramount to keeping my mind even keeled and content. I have invested in a massive 20kg tub of epsom salts and some essential oils ( from New Directions – fab warehouse) to keep me going for a while. I’ve found that this recipe from Hello Glow and it’s “uplifting / strengthening stress relief” description do just that for my mood.
The recent ban on greyhound racing
I am hoping that this recent ban in NSW leads to many conversations and changed attitudes in how we treat and view animals. We obviously have a long way to go but this is a positive start. We are strongly considering a new friend for Garp. See Greyhound Rescue to view some of the sweethearts (and their oh so human eyes) looking for their forever homes.
Lots of interesting and fun events coming up
My winter hibernation period is wrapping up so it’s time to get out amongst it again. There will be some culture on the cards at former refugee / pianist extraordinaire Hoang Pham and his performance at the City Recital Hall on the 16th October – all proceeds go towards saving the bears through the wonderful Animals Asia. Some learning and a little bit of networking is to be had at the Animal Justice Party Conference on 24th September and the Lucy’s Project Conference in Sydney on 5th and 6th November – a must do for all those interested in the indisputable connection between animal abuse and domestic violence. An interesting Sydney Fringe Festival dinner party event called Kale-spiracy will be held on the 28th September with a panel debating vegan/vegetarian vs omnivore diets. And then there’s the Cruelty Free Festival which I always love on the 30th October.
Some new summer shoes
No leather here…..I present my massively comfy (and hopefully fashionable, I am never quite sure!) new summer flats from Mox’s.
They come in many different colours too.
A new tooth care regime
Having been cursed with periodontal disease, care of my teeth is paramount. Having banished all the usual suspects (Colgate, Sensodyne etc) due to cruel animal testing, I have found Weleda salt toothpaste and Tooth Tonic treatment to be working well. Lets hope my perio thinks so too.
A 2017 diary has caught my eye
Being a devout Virgo, diary’s are crucial to my well being. List making, planning – it all happens in the treasured diary. Edgars Mission have just released a gorgeous diary for 2017 which I’ll be ordering very soon in a virgo-ish – still 3 months out from the years end -manner.
Getting into a yoga groove
At the age of 46, I have FINALLY worked out what I like to do fitness wise – yoga and walking and, I admit (with some trepidation due to aforementioned age), the odd boogy at No Lights No Lycra (OMG, so much fun !). I have gone through stages of thinking I should like certain activities like jogging or pump at the gym but, it turns out that I really don’t. I am still a beginner at yoga but I am loving (for free !) my weekly outdoor class through Live Life Get Active (they are all around Australia) and the Yoga With Adriene series on youtube.
Reading and telly / movie watching
Ah, how immensely satisfying is it when you read a good book, see a great movie or discover a new series on telly. Truly life’s pleasures. My recommendations of late are :
Movies – Truman
TV – Wentworth, The Night Of, Happy Valley and Catastrophe. All brilliant !
Now an annual birthday treat to myself, I recently fled the world for a few days on my own for some unadulterated introvert’s heaven. This time it was to Leura in the Blue Mountains in this cute little airbnb cottage. Long walks, lunches (love you Rubyfruit), nanna naps, list making, Spring flower gazing – ahhhh bliss !
I would love to know what is making you happy right now.
“The measure of a man is what he does with power” – Plato
My little blog usually focuses on all the things which we, as individuals, can do as part of our day to day life to be kinder and gentler to animals, the environment, ourselves and each other. I love the fact that these habits are immediately available and we remain firmly in control of such choices.
However, there comes a time where we need something a little bit more than our individual power. We need policy, legislation and laws in place to protect our world and the creatures we share it with….otherwise one can feel like a grain of sand in the desert, plodding away on our little individual quests to make the world a better place.
Next weekend, Australians will all have the choice about who we want to lead us, form our boundaries and come up with much needed new horizons to work towards. Yes, it is election time !
If you are reading this page, you are no doubt an animal lover. If you are an animal lover, there are a plethora of reasons to by pass the standard, lackluster duopoly and give the Animal Justice Party (AJP) your valuable vote. Here are 10 of mine:
1. Unlike the Labour and Liberal parties (who inexplicably want to expand the trade) the AJP are fierce opponents of the live animal export trade. If you’ve watched the news over the last couple of weeks…you would have seen history repeating itself. Yet again, we viewed horrific footage of Australian cattle being bludgeoned to death by sledgehammers in Vietnam. This trade is just vile and the majority of Australians want it to end. It is also corrupt – with news breaking last week of the brave whistle blowing vet, Dr Lynn Simpson, being dismissed from her job after photos and footage she took of the appalling conditions faced by the animals on board the live export ships were mistakenly posted (not even by her) and made public on the Department of Agriculture’s website. Outrageous ! If you have any questions, as I did, about the implications of ending live animal export (“won’t they just source animals from other countries ?”, “some countries can’t import boxed meat as they don’t have refrigeration, right ?” etc), I found this page from Animals Australia to be a wealth of info to help dispel the myths. New Zealand banned live animal export for slaughter in 2007 due to animal welfare concerns – so can we. The Greens also support an end to Live Animal Export.
2. They support an Independent Office of Animal Welfare (IOAW). This is a big one. As it stands now, animal protection is largely governed by departments of agriculture, or their equivalent, around the country. There is a glaring conflict of interest there which means that those given the power to protect animals, tend to do the opposite in order to…you guessed it….make money ! We need an INDEPENDENT organisation to look after the interest of farm, companion and wild animals – to create legislation to protect rather than harm these creatures. We also need to re-think who should be the primary agency when it comes to animal cruelty enforcement. Should such a vital role continue to be held by a largely public funded charity ? (RSPCA). The Greens and the ALP also support a IOAW (but to varying degrees). Read more here.
3. They seek to address the strong but too frequently ignored link between human violence and crimes and cruelty to animals. In an issue particularly close to my heart, in domestic violence cases they will seek to have refuges include facilities for pets too. Such a simple solution when so many women currently won’t leave a violent home due to fears for their animals.
4. They acknowledge the indisputable and damning correlation between animal agriculture and climate change. Cowspiracy is a great documentary about this very issue if you want to learn more.
5. They have a viable, practical plan to deal with the crisis currently affecting companion animals where 250,000 healthy dogs and cats are being euthansed every year in Australia due to inadequate systems in place.
6. The AJP are offering kind and inclusive “people policies” too. They are supportive of refugees, the LGBTI community and believe in same sex marriage. They also recognise the unsustainable notion of an unlimited growing population and urban sprawl.
7. You can get a taste of what their influence could look like by following the great things Mark Pearson’s (the AJP member in NSW) has been striving for in State parliament from wanting sprinkler systems installed in piggeries (to prevent sows burning to death in a fire) to ending kangaroo slaughter.
8. They oppose grey hound racing. Another corrupt, cruel, greedy, self serving “sport” which so many other countries have banned. Undercover footage showing the use of live animals used for bait and our government’s lack of care when it comes to exporting dogs to countries devoid of any laws to prevent animal cruelty shows that this industry has no future.
9. The AJP consists of a diverse collection of kind, measured and smart people. I have had the pleasure of meeting some of the current contenders. NSW, QLD, WA, TAS, SA and the ACT have candidates for the senate and NSW, SA and VIC are well represented by contenders for House Of Reps spots. Our government currently seems full of many large egos, questionable agendas and skewed morals. To have some representatives in parliament who share the commonality of wanting a kinder world would be a breath of fresh air. The AJP how to vote page reveals if you have a contender in your electorate. I unfortunately don’t have one in my area but can still vote for AJP number 1 in the senate.
10. No you don’t have to be vegan to be part of the AJP but the benefits of a plant based diet are on their agenda – for good reason. Vegetarianism and veganism are growing in popularity world wide. Companies overseas like Hampton Creek and Beyond Meat are going gang busters with new plant based innovations. Like renewable energy versus coal, the benefits of investing in farmers who grow plants should not be underrated on an economic basis.
You can read more about the wonderful policies of the AJP on their webpage here.
Finally, there’s a pretty god damn cute poster boy for the AJP….in my house at least….
“Delicious autumn! My very soul is wedded to it, and if I were a bird I would fly about the earth seeking the successive autumns,” ~ George Eliot.
Where are you my beloved Autumn ? T’is but a mere 2 weeks away from winter and yet another t-shirt wearing Sydney day is just finishing up. Frightening stuff – and, scarier still that our politicians in their election campaign are steadfastly avoiding any climate change talk. It’s all “jobs and growth” but what kind of world are they expecting us to work in and grow into ??
My blogging frequency is about as lack luster as this balmy excuse of an Autumn we are having. I am keen to get back into the swing of addressing a topic once a month or so but, for now, it’s going to be all the brilliant, interesting and inspiring things which have been tickling my fancy or firing me up since I last wrote all those moons ago in Spring.
- Marc Ching from the Animal Hope and Wellness Foundation in the US. His missions to save dogs from the meat trade in Asia (most recently in China, Thailand and Cambodia) are epic and heart wrenching to watch but ultimately heroic. He does what so few animal lovers could do or face. When he is not rescuing dogs under the guise of being a dog meat buyer so he can infiltrate into the grimmest of world’s where dogs are tortured before being killed for their meat, he is rescuing animals from the worst cases of neglect and abuse in the US. Here is his facebook page which follows these incredible rescues.
Whilst on this topic, please join Ricky Gervais and sign this petition against the Yulin Dog Meat Festival in China. Public opposition to this barbaric festival grows each year. Please add your voice. It needs to end.
- Marianne Thieme. I went to see her talk a couple of weeks ago at the 2016 Voiceless Animal Law Lecture Series. This utterly impressive woman is the leader of the Dutch Party for the Animals. I felt like I was immersed in an episode of Borgen – watching a rare species of politician who is progressive, intelligent, compassionate and actually thinking about the issues that will make this world a better place for the people and animals living on it.
If you’d like to know where do our political parties stand on animal protection here is a handy summary provided by Voiceless. If you would like to see better protection for our most vulnerable members of society, you’ll see that the Animal Justice Party tick all the boxes. I know who will be getting my vote at the up and coming election.
Heavy topics over with…..onto some of my more pleasurable discoveries (which I am noticing are dominated by FOOD ) and a viable explanation for my increasingly gripping pants !
Eating Out Recommendations
Gigi’s in Newtown continues to tantalise my taste buds with it’s mouthwatering array of pizzas and cocktails and other delights. Seriously, go there.
Gelato Blue in Newtown – have always found it to be the best gelataria in existence but it has now outdone itself by taking a leaf out of Gigi’s book and going completely animal product free.
Golden Lotus in Newtown – delicious and affordable Vietnamese food. Vegan Pho and the like.
New vanilla and blue berry flavoured coconut, dairy free yogurt courtesy of Nudie. I hunted down the Vanilla one at Woollies and rate it big time.
All the new drool-worthy Over the Moo dairy free ice cream flavours, including Matcha Green Tea, Caramel and Ginger Ninja.
I have been on a biscuit / brownie making rampage of late with the following little morsels getting rapturous feedback…
- The Best Chewy Vegan Brownies (ingredients include avocado and aquafaba – chick pea liquid…magical egg replacement)
- Macadamia Anzac Biscuits (just used Nuttalex instead of butter)
- Honey Peanut Butter & Coconut Cookies. (They take 20 mins to make, start to finish and are really delicious. I used maple syrup rather than honey).
As for savoury new discoveries……
This one pot Mexican quinoa dish has been on repeat in our household. Love it.
I’ve just fallen in love with a new cooking blog where every dish looks sensational, nutritious and uncomplicated. The Buddhist Chef – check it out. The Dragon Bowl is getting a run this week in our house.
Like every second person seems to be doing, I have jumped aboard the house and contents de-cluttering bandwagon – albeit at the most snail like pace imaginable (we’re talking a drawer a week). The Slow Home Podcast and The Minimalists are my go to podcasts to bolster my enthusiasm levels. I am trying my best to rid our unwanted items as responsibly as possible – rather than just turfing it out the front for council collection as I know it’ll get chucked straight into landfill. So, there’s been a couple of handy discoveries I have made….
Terra Cycle. I have created a couple of boxes….one for all my old cosmetic containers, squirty gadgets etc which can’t be recycled via the normal council bins….and the other for all our tooth care regalia – so old toothbrushes, used toothpaste tubes etc. Once full, I just print off my label and mail it off (for free) to the creative Terra Cycle people who make it all into something new and functional. Clever hey ?They have a whole lot of different categories like rubber gloves, pens and coffee pods which run in a similar way. You can earn points too but I didn’t figure out how to do this. I just wanted to be rid of my loot.
H & M. Now this is an impressive move for a chain clothing store and sorted one of my dilemmas. What to do with all those sheets, old t-shirts etc lurking in your cupboards which have a little mark on them or are a bit old and threadbare so unsuitable for Vinnies ?? You take them into your local H & M store where they take them off your hands and do something constructive and worthy with them like making them into new products. PLUS you get a 15% discount card for your troubles should you wish to purchase something (which I did not as am trying to curb my consumerist ways too).
Good new app
If you do eat eggs, Choice have released this great, free app to allow you to avoid all the dodgy, so called “free range” eggs when you are at the supermarket. If you’re going to eat eggs, please pay a few more dollars and support the farmer who stocks the 800-1500 birds per hectare rather than those cashing in on the now legally allowed 10,000 birds per hectare definition, even when the poor birds can’t get outside. And, whilst you’re at it, you can let Aldi know that they are living in the past by supporting the continued sale of caged eggs.
Random nice things
I’ve discovered a new funny comedian who’s podcast I’m loving – the inappropriate, ballsy, sweary, hilarious Jen Kirkman. Her books are great too. Divorced and suddenly single in her 40’s, child free by choice, flying anxieties, weird Prince dreams….it’s all there. And, she’s vegan as I only recently discovered. So sad that I missed the boat and did not see her recently perform in Sydney.
Speaking of Podcasts…a new discovery for me is “Knowing Animals“. An informative learning hub for animal related advocacy issues. JJJ’s Lindsay McDougall was the most recent guest.
Movies – 45 years, Rams, The Daughter, Sherpa and Mia Madre are all fantastic, must sees in my humble opinion.
TV Shows – am obsessed with the UK police show “Happy Valley”. It is so engrossing and gripping.
Books -Nest by Inga Simpson, A Man Called Ove by Fredrick Simpson and The Anti-Cool Girl by Rosie Waterland. All great reads.
I sincerely hope that it is not in 2 seasons time until I see you again. I miss tinkering on my little blog but struggle with time management (obviously). I have no idea how many people read it, would not know how to view my stats to save myself but, for my own sake, it’s a way of gathering up everything I learn or discover and plonking it down in one spot. I hope you get something out of it too.
You can find me on facebook as well.
“Every man and every living creature has a sacred right to the gladness of springtime” – Leo Tolstoy
(for any keen eyed Tread Kindly folk, yes, I have used that gorgeous Tolstoy quote before but…it’s so apt for this time of year and it’s one of my favourites !)
Spring…..lordy, I’ve really only just snuck in by the skin of my teeth haven’t I ? Life has been busy and my little blog has been woefully neglected. Alas I am here and keen to share my Spring re-cap with you!
- My favorite Springtime event was a few days spent with a group of like minded, kind and wise souls as part of the Lucy’s Project conference in Byron Bay earlier this month. If helping domestic violence survivors and their animals sparks your interest, join the facebook group to keep up to date. I can’t wait for next year’s conference and to see what we can collectively achieve over the next year. Anna, the founder, is one incredible lady and has shown us what one person can do when they put their mind to it.
- Speaking of amazing ladies, I loved this article by Edgar’s Mission Pam Ahern about how to speak up for something you believe in when you are not naturally a loud or outspoken person. I feel that I will be referring back to it a lot.
Tried and tested wonderous recipes to share
- This rice salad (courtesy of my mum) receives rapturous praise and requests for the recipe whenever I make it. So, for my tribe of adoring salad fans from a couple of weekends ago…..here it is ! I think a few dried cranberries thrown in there will make in sufficiently christmas-y ?
- In all it’s fire breathing glory – my Mapo Tofu. Not for those delicate of tongue !
- Aquafaba (the viscose-y liquid found in tins of beans like chickpeas) as an egg replacement. I can’t believe I’ve been tipping this amazing substance down the sink for so long.
Yes, free range eggs are better than caged eggs BUT even free range chickens are slaughtered around 18 months of age and male chicks are killed at birth. Plus, our Egg Corporation has some serious integrity issues going on and what they are seeking to be the stocking density for free range is a (sad) joke. So, why not cut down or eliminate egg use in cooking by giving aquafaba a try ?
Here is my first aquafaba experiment – chai spiced ginger biscuits. They are yum (if not a tad lurid !).
Join the facebook group – Vegan meringue – Hits and Misses and be bamboozled by what some clever people are creating with aquafaba.
- Green Smoothies. I have always shied away from even the mere thought of a smoothie made from spinach or kale but they are actually pretty damn delicious. Thanks to The Slow Home Podcast (which has introduced me to so many good things), I discovered Simple Green Smoothie’s website full of recipes and I’ve been trying to make one every non work day.
- Thomas King – one of those people who makes you feel a bit inadequate having achieved so much at such a young age but we definitely need more compassionate, young men like Thomas in leadership positions.
- Amber Canavan. In a story which leaves you shaking your head at the lunacy of this world, Amber was sent to jail for a month for exposing hideous cruelty in a Foie Gras facility in New York and rescuing 2 birds. Her story leaves me feeling uneasy about how the recently passed “Biosecurity” (Ag Gag) laws in Australia will punish brave souls who expose animal cruelty.
- Mark Pearson from the Animal Justice Party. I love watching his measured speeches in Parliament. Animals are finally getting a voice in politics. Hooray !
- Wang Yan who’s search for his missing dog, ended up with him spending his fortune on rescuing dogs from the meat trade in China.
- Journalist Sam de Brito who died on the 12th October 2015. I so miss his words in the Sun Herald each week. Having a blokey, regular Aussie guy discuss compassion and kindness in the mainstream media was so valuable. Here are my favourite Sam articles : Confessions of a Vegan, We Are All Nazis When It Comes To Animal Rights, Put the Cameras In Farms, Not Outside and, his final column, My Baby In Bed. Farewell lovely man.
Great news from around the globe
- Animals Asia rescued 33 bears from their miserable cages in Vietnam.
- Mink fur farms to be phased out in the Netherlands.
- Experiments on chimpanzees in America has come to an end
With Christmas just around the corner
“Peace and goodwill” should be offered to ALL creatures this Christmas time. There are a gazillion kind Christmas Day recipe options out there but I’m tossing up between the following delights (or you can check out my last year’s Christmas post for some other ideas):
Bed and Broccoli’s garlic prawns
Vegan Dad’s Maple Apple Cider Tofu
Thankfully, my family is all on board again to do the donation thing, rather than buying presents but here are some gift ideas which are catching my eye.
Western Australian based Scent To Rescue Candles – 100 % of profits from these gorgeous candles go to animal rescue groups
Sea Shepherd’s “Cookin’ Up A Storm” cookbook
Animal’s Asia stunning bear charm bracelets
Any of the delectable wines from Goodwill Wine. You pick which charity receives the generous donation from your purchase.
T-shirts from Where Pigs Fly Farm Sanctuary (I have one, they are massively cute – don’t you think ??)
Say farewell to glad wrap by using pretty Beeswax food wraps sold by Ecolosophy
The latest from the fabulous Women of Letters books – Between Us. All royalties go to Edgars Mission animal sanctuary.
Perfect Potion gift boxes. Beautifully presented, ethical body products.
- Rosie Batty’s shattering “A Mother’s Story“. Shows the massive gaps in society which people slip through.
- “When There’s Nowhere Else to Run” by Murray Middleton. Brilliantly readable Australian short stories.
- I’ve just started “Only the Animals” by Ceridwen Dovey but am loving it so far.
- My new favourite Sydney restaurant is Gigi’s Pizzeria. I was bursting with keeness and was first in the queue to get myself into this much heralded, newly vamped pizzeria in Newtown. Ridiculously, sublimely good food. Even the keenest of carnivours would be hard pushed to notice the absence of any animal products.
- Date with a mate anyone ? I am itching to try Bliss and Chips in Newtown, The Dandylion in Bondi, Flora Bean Gallery Cafe in Sans Souci, Superfood Sushi in Newtown, Soul Burger in Randwick and Pana Chocolates in Alexandria.
Now……..it’s time to leap into summer……..see you soon (probably sooner on facebook – please stop by and “like” me if you haven’t)! xxx
I chose to make this quintessentially Chinese dish whilst my delicate palette-d partner is away. It is impressively fiery and tasty and is a mish mash of the vegan mapo tofu recipes I found on line. It is my new go to dish. Serves 2-3 and takes about 20 mins to prepare and cook.
- 2 tablespoons of oil (I used rice bran)
- 3 cloves of garlic – minced.
- 2 cm squared piece of ginger – minced or grated
- About 100g vegi mince (I used Quorn)
- 300g of firm tofu – drained and chopped into 1cm squares
- 1.5 litres of “chicken” (ie Massel) flavoured stock
- About 4 dried red chilies (from Asian store)
- 1 heaped tablespoon of cornstarch
- 1 packet of Mapo Tofu seasoning (cheaty I know) (easy to find at Asian store)
- Handful of dried porcini mushrooms – soak in warm water and chop up when hydrated (discard liquid)
- A few chopped shallots
- Half a chopped long red chili
- Chili oil (optional)
Heat oil in wok. Add garlic, ginger, dried chilies, packet of Mapo Tofu seasoning and mushrooms. After a few minutes add your “mince”. Whirl around wok for about 5 minutes.
Add stock, bring to boil and then reduce heat. Stir through cornstarch and you’ll see the sauce begin to thicken. Add the tofu and simmer for about 7 mins. Pick out the dried chilies.
Serve with rice and top with shallots, chilies and a drizzle of chili oil.
I hope you enjoy it as much as I did x
“In solitude the mind gains strength and learns to lean upon itself” – Laurence SterneA quick disclaimer here……I truly love and relish spending time with my partner, friends and family.
BUT………..I also love spending some quality time……alone. (You will feel less hesitant admitting to this if you’ve read the brilliant book Quiet).
I was lucky enough to have been able to tack on a couple of “it’s all about me” days on the tail end of a recent adventure to Tasmania.
These days were spent in a town I have fallen madly and deeply in love with…….of all the unlikely places on the planet……Launceston ! What a magnificent place. Here is a little run down of what I got up to during my couple of days of self imposed solitude:
- I stayed at THE most blissful airbnb place. Oswalds. Affordable for my solo self. Peaceful, comfortable and, well, just perfect. Loved the cruelty free Sukin bathroom products too. The church bells next door (in the beautiful St Oswalds church) ring out every Monday to signify the plight of refugees.
- Ate out. I do not have enough superlatives to describe how good the food was at Garden of Vegan. No wonder it (a vegan restaurant ‘n all !) rates number one on Trip Advisor for Launceston.
Vegi cafe Fresh On Charles was pretty damn fine too. (How stunning are the wall designs ?)
The Best Coffee Place award went to Sweet Brew (the coffee was superb). A plethora of groovy mags like Frankie to immerse your solo self in. AND, the draw card for me was this sign….(the cafe owner’s 5 year old son sells lemons to raise money to release captive bears in Romania – he has already raised enough money to enable one bear to be released – read more about Tariku’s inspiring tale)
………suffice to say, I came home with a few lemons in my luggage.
- Strode many of the thigh strapping tracks on the spectacular Launceston Gorge which was right on my doorstop.
- Fossicked in a few very sweet shops – loved Inside and Den which were full of locally made lovely things.
- Had a massage which, in my books is the pinnacle of some indulgent “me time” – I would highly recommend Tai Chi Chinese Massage.
- Went to the glorious Saturday farmer’s markets (admittedly I did this the weekend prior when I was with friends) but I enjoyed my purchases (including a 3 pack of some local “Henry’s” ginger beer (including a scrumptious Wasabi flavour) during my solitary sojourn).
- Read an incidentally apt book – Neon Pilgrim by Lisa Dempster. A brilliant memoir about her solitary (and vegan) 1200 km pilgrimage on the Henro Michi in Japan. Really loved this book.
- Did not enjoy the Japanese macaque enclosure in the Botanical Gardens. It was little more than a small zoo enclosure which left me feeling a bit sad (even though the macaques were undeniably cute).
- Thought about going on a bike ride. Alas, it was a bit too chilly (and I was a bit too lazy) but there are free bikes available to wizz around on – available through Artbikes.
- Stalked the neighbourhood streets eyeing off the beautiful houses whilst imagining myself (with ease) as a Launcest-eon
I acknowledge that as a child-less person, it may be easier for me than some to have some one on one time with myself. And maybe not everybody would enjoy it ?? I however, have come to the realisation just how much I need and cherish a few reflective, self indulgent days to myself. Hence, each year I will be guiltlessly weaving in a few such lonesome days into the calendar. Try it out – you can ponder and potter, listen to whatever music you like and go to bed at 7.30pm without being heckled and called names (like nana).It is unlikely that I will be able to lure myself anywhere else for the forseeable future other than back to Oswalds to do all this again BUT, a couple of other good solo destinations I recommend are :
- The Pittwater YHA in Sydney. I have been going there with friends since I was a young lass. They do have very affordable, single rooms though but you have to book ahead as it is so damn popular now that the secret is out.
- Some shameless spruiking here but my mum’s airbnb place, in the inner west of Sydney. My mum has always been a very bold, intrepid, often solo traveler so she is sympathetic to the plight of the lone traveller and prices her cute place accordingly.
- A tad more costly for the single traveler but Inspirations on Bruny (yes, Tasmania again, there is a bit of a theme going on hey ?) is another brilliant place to escape from the world.
Do you have any others to recommend ? Am I alone in my love of some alone time ?